It’s May 2nd, the second day of National Masturbation Month. Have you been celebrating so far? I hope you’re enjoying lots of solo-fun time as the month starts up. Thank you to the 109 people who responded to yesterday’s #MasturbationMonth Twitter survey asking your preferred method for external clitoral stimulation. The winner was “multiple fingers”… Read more An EVEN ODDS Preview: National Masturbation Month Day 2
Ladies and gentlemen, the title says it all: today begins National Masturbation Month! This month-long holiday was started in 1995 by the incredible women behind Good Vibrations, and its popularity has been “on the rise” ever since. I think everyone should have a hobby, and masturbation is a good one. I want to see masturbation… Read more May is National Masturbation Month!
Sometimes, I like sexting with people on Kik. Wow, that’s a sentence that wouldn’t have made any sense twenty years ago. In case you’re twenty years behind in technology or just haven’t heard of Kik – or maybe sexting – I’ll explain. Kik is an anonymous chat program that lets you sign up with just an email… Read more Oh the Dicks You Will See: Adventures in Sexting with Strangers
I think the title of this post should warn you sufficiently about what oversharing is in these here waters. I’m going to talk about my full Brazilian laser hair removal treatment. Blog readers, I’ve taken you into some TMI territory, between my MS Paint recap of the Geeky Kink Event and my never-ending posts about sex… Read more Lasering my Genitals: A TMI Saga
One of the new terms floating about in the online BDSM world right now is the “alpha sub.” It’s showing up in my Tumblr more and more, and while I always take Tumblr kink with a grain of salt – putting your porn through a black and white filter doesn’t necessarily make it artsy, folks –… Read more Don’t call me an Alpha Sub
It was Pi Day last week – did you have your pie? – and now, just a week later, I’m thrilled to show you folks the covers for the Slices of Pi trilogy. Even better, they’re available for pre-order! Yes, ALL of them! I’m worried about surpassing my quota for exclamation points for this post,… Read more Cover Reveal: Slices of Pi Trilogy
A while back, I wrote about the Wide World of Sex Toys. In the post on vibrators, I mentioned the Hitachi Magic Wand vibrator, now just called the Magic Wand. Known as the “Cadillac of vibrators,” its mind-numbing intensity combined with its “I could be a back massager” near-respectability have made it famous. I get a… Read more We Need To Talk About This Giant Vibrator
I’m pleased to announce that I’m taking “geeky, kinky romance” to the next level with my SLICES OF PI trilogy, coming this summer from Simon & Schuster’s Pocket Star Imprint! Whether you’re here for the geeky or here for the kinky, you’ll find something to love in this trilogy that follows the adventures of employees… Read more Slices of PI: Erotic Romance Trilogy Coming This Summer
A few weeks ago, I was fortunate enough to attend Geeky Kink New England, which is either described as “a geeky convention for kinksters” or “a kinky convention for geeks.” I first heard of this event during my research for Playing Knotty. I needed to find some kink conventions that Ian was likely to attend, and… Read more Elia Recaps Her First Kink Convention (in MS Paint)
I need to get something off my chest. I’m sick and tired of the way people talk about romance novels and the romance genre. Here are five things we need to stop doing immediately: Stop treating romance like “writing for dummies.” I can’t count the number of times someone in one of my writing groups has said the… Read more 5 Things to Stop Doing When Talking About Romance Novels