Sex

Maybe Three’s Not a Crowd: Polyamory Thoughts

Up until a few years ago, I knew I was monogamous. In fact, I knew my husband and I were both monogamous, and that neither of us was going to sleep with anyone else besides each other for the rest of our lives. Polyamory was not in the cards. I was curious about threesomes, about women,… Read more Maybe Three’s Not a Crowd: Polyamory Thoughts

Shove these anal plug recommendations up your ass

National Masturbation Month is ending way too soon, and I haven’t given any anal toy recommendations. How can this be? I love anal play! I think people should stick things up their asses far more often! I’m going to rectify that mistake right now. Heh. Rect-ify. I’m going to make an ass-load of puns in… Read more Shove these anal plug recommendations up your ass

Getting the Most from your Vibrator: Vibrator Infographic

We’re more than halfway through National Masturbation Month, folks! Are you getting everything out of this month that you can? Keep reading, because this vibrator infographic might help you out. Thanks to those of you who replied to the last Twitter poll about masturbating in public. While 31% of respondents said they would never do… Read more Getting the Most from your Vibrator: Vibrator Infographic

Sex Toy Highlight: Enjoy nJoy for National Masturbation Month

Welcome to Day 3 of National Masturbation Month. Today, I thought I’d do a brief write-up of one of my favorite sex toys, the nJoy fun wand. Before we get to that, though, the results of yesterday’s Twitter survey. I asked the question “How often, on average, do you typically masturbate?” A total of 74% of… Read more Sex Toy Highlight: Enjoy nJoy for National Masturbation Month

An EVEN ODDS Preview: National Masturbation Month Day 2

It’s May 2nd, the second day of National Masturbation Month. Have you been celebrating so far? I hope you’re enjoying lots of solo-fun time as the month starts up. Thank you to the 109 people who responded to yesterday’s #MasturbationMonth Twitter survey asking your preferred method for external clitoral stimulation. The winner was “multiple fingers”… Read more An EVEN ODDS Preview: National Masturbation Month Day 2

May is National Masturbation Month!

Ladies and gentlemen, the title says it all: today begins National Masturbation Month! This month-long holiday was started in 1995 by the incredible women behind Good Vibrations, and its popularity has been “on the rise” ever since. I think everyone should have a hobby, and masturbation is a good one. I want to see masturbation… Read more May is National Masturbation Month!

Oh the Dicks You Will See: Adventures in Sexting with Strangers

Sometimes, I like sexting with people on Kik. Wow, that’s a sentence that wouldn’t have made any sense twenty years ago. In case you’re twenty years behind in technology or just haven’t heard of Kik – or maybe sexting – I’ll explain. Kik is an anonymous chat program that lets you sign up with just an email… Read more Oh the Dicks You Will See: Adventures in Sexting with Strangers

We Need To Talk About This Giant Vibrator

A while back, I wrote about the Wide World of Sex Toys. In the post on vibrators, I mentioned the Hitachi Magic Wand vibrator, now just called the Magic Wand. Known as the “Cadillac of vibrators,” its mind-numbing intensity combined with its “I could be a back massager” near-respectability have made it famous. I get a… Read more We Need To Talk About This Giant Vibrator

Elia Recaps Her First Kink Convention (in MS Paint)

A few weeks ago, I was fortunate enough to attend Geeky Kink New England, which is either described as “a geeky convention for kinksters” or “a kinky convention for geeks.” I first heard of this event during my research for Playing Knotty. I needed to find some kink conventions that Ian was likely to attend, and… Read more Elia Recaps Her First Kink Convention (in MS Paint)