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Bawdy Bookworms Review: The Venn Diagram of Fun

This Bawdy Bookworms review all started as part of a conversation with the amazing Thien-Kim Lam on Twitter. Knowing I was both a romance author/reader and a sex toy aficionado, Thien-Kim contacted me about reviewing one of Bawdy Bookworms‘s curated subscription boxes. I said sure, of course, and she sent me the delightful “Hurts So Good” box… Read more Bawdy Bookworms Review: The Venn Diagram of Fun

Indigo Foxtail Review: The Ninth Day of Dicksmas

Happy New Year, folks! I’m writing this Indigo Foxtail Review for the ninth day of Dicksmas, and the first Dicksmas post of the new year. I’m still in the Dicksmas spirit, and I hope you are, too. Spank Academy’s Indigo Foxtail is way more fun than I expected, and I was expecting fun. Background Info… Read more Indigo Foxtail Review: The Ninth Day of Dicksmas

KinkCraft Review: Do It Yourself then Do Yourself

If you’ve never heard of KinkCraft – and I’m a little embarrassed that I hadn’t – they’re a company that sells instructions and kits so you can build your own pervertables. You can either buy the courses and purchase your own supplies, or buy kits that include the course and all the supplies, or just… Read more KinkCraft Review: Do It Yourself then Do Yourself

Maybe Three’s Not a Crowd: Polyamory Thoughts

Up until a few years ago, I knew I was monogamous. In fact, I knew my husband and I were both monogamous, and that neither of us was going to sleep with anyone else besides each other for the rest of our lives. Polyamory was not in the cards. I was curious about threesomes, about women,… Read more Maybe Three’s Not a Crowd: Polyamory Thoughts

Hit me with your best shot: Impact play and mindfulness

Yesterday, Kate on Girly Juice published a fabulous piece called Meditation, Mindfulness, & My Slutty Mouth, which among other topics, discussed the meditative quality she finds in giving blow jobs. It’s a great article, and you should read it. When I read the piece yesterday, I started thinking about my own relationship between sex and… Read more Hit me with your best shot: Impact play and mindfulness

Tweezer Clamps: A Masturbation Month Toy Recommendation

Hello, folks! Today, I’m going to recommend some tweezer clamps to spice up your solo and partnered sex. But first, of course, Twitter results! When I asked about butt stuff, you folks responded, and I appreciate it. 43% of respondents enjoy some anal play during masturbation, at least on occasion, and an additional 14% said it was their… Read more Tweezer Clamps: A Masturbation Month Toy Recommendation

Self-Love: Breaking Free of Gendered Limitations

Yesterday, my agent Saritza Hernandez sent me a wonderful article from The Body Is Not an Apology, a fabulous blog with the tagline of “Radical Self-Love for Everybody and Every Body.” Clearly, this is right up my alley. The article was “3 Steps Toward Good Sex Beyond the Binary: Having Sex with a Nonbinary Person,… Read more Self-Love: Breaking Free of Gendered Limitations

A TIED SCORE Preview: Masturbation Month Week 2

Welcome to week 2 of National Masturbation Month! Today, I’m sharing an excerpt featuring masturbation from another one of my novels. This time, you’re getting the first preview of Tied Score, Book 2 in the “Slices of PI” series, a BDSM erotic romance releasing on August 15, 2016. First, though, last week’s survey results! When asked about your… Read more A TIED SCORE Preview: Masturbation Month Week 2