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MSOUL ART O-Ring Collar Review

Today I’m on the blog reviewing the MSOUL ART O-Ring Collar, and I’m excited about this product and this overall collaboration. I love the opportunity to work with new-to-me companies, especially companies specializing in BDSM products. While most of what I review falls explicitly in the “sex toy” category, devoted readers of the blog know… Read more MSOUL ART O-Ring Collar Review

Füch Yes: Fun Factory Bück Dich

My Fun Factory Bück Dick review celebrates a delightfully simple, delightfully fun toy that manages to somehow excel at two different purposes. Not only does it have a great name, but it’s a whopping good time, and I emphasize the “whopping” part. The Bück Dich is half paddle, half dildo, and all delight. Background Info… Read more Füch Yes: Fun Factory Bück Dich

Bawdy Bookworms Review: The Venn Diagram of Fun

This Bawdy Bookworms review all started as part of a conversation with the amazing Thien-Kim Lam on Twitter. Knowing I was both a romance author/reader and a sex toy aficionado, Thien-Kim contacted me about reviewing one of Bawdy Bookworms‘s curated subscription boxes. I said sure, of course, and she sent me the delightful “Hurts So Good” box… Read more Bawdy Bookworms Review: The Venn Diagram of Fun

KinkCraft Review: Do It Yourself then Do Yourself

If you’ve never heard of KinkCraft – and I’m a little embarrassed that I hadn’t – they’re a company that sells instructions and kits so you can build your own pervertables. You can either buy the courses and purchase your own supplies, or buy kits that include the course and all the supplies, or just… Read more KinkCraft Review: Do It Yourself then Do Yourself

Tweezer Clamps: A Masturbation Month Toy Recommendation

Hello, folks! Today, I’m going to recommend some tweezer clamps to spice up your solo and partnered sex. But first, of course, Twitter results! When I asked about butt stuff, you folks responded, and I appreciate it. 43% of respondents enjoy some anal play during masturbation, at least on occasion, and an additional 14% said it was their… Read more Tweezer Clamps: A Masturbation Month Toy Recommendation

Self-Love: Breaking Free of Gendered Limitations

Yesterday, my agent Saritza Hernandez sent me a wonderful article from The Body Is Not an Apology, a fabulous blog with the tagline of “Radical Self-Love for Everybody and Every Body.” Clearly, this is right up my alley. The article was “3 Steps Toward Good Sex Beyond the Binary: Having Sex with a Nonbinary Person,… Read more Self-Love: Breaking Free of Gendered Limitations

A TIED SCORE Preview: Masturbation Month Week 2

Welcome to week 2 of National Masturbation Month! Today, I’m sharing an excerpt featuring masturbation from another one of my novels. This time, you’re getting the first preview of Tied Score, Book 2 in the “Slices of PI” series, a BDSM erotic romance releasing on August 15, 2016. First, though, last week’s survey results! When asked about your… Read more A TIED SCORE Preview: Masturbation Month Week 2

Oh the Dicks You Will See: Adventures in Sexting with Strangers

Sometimes, I like sexting with people on Kik. Wow, that’s a sentence that wouldn’t have made any sense twenty years ago. In case you’re twenty years behind in technology or just haven’t heard of Kik – or maybe sexting – I’ll explain. Kik is an anonymous chat program that lets you sign up with just an email… Read more Oh the Dicks You Will See: Adventures in Sexting with Strangers