Hello, folks! Today, I’m going to recommend some tweezer clamps to spice up your solo and partnered sex. But first, of course, Twitter results! When I asked about butt stuff, you folks responded, and I appreciate it. 43% of respondents enjoy some anal play during masturbation, at least on occasion, and an additional 14% said it was their… Read more Tweezer Clamps: A Masturbation Month Toy Recommendation
Yesterday, my agent Saritza Hernandez sent me a wonderful article from The Body Is Not an Apology, a fabulous blog with the tagline of “Radical Self-Love for Everybody and Every Body.” Clearly, this is right up my alley. The article was “3 Steps Toward Good Sex Beyond the Binary: Having Sex with a Nonbinary Person,… Read more Self-Love: Breaking Free of Gendered Limitations
Welcome to week 2 of National Masturbation Month! Today, I’m sharing an excerpt featuring masturbation from another one of my novels. This time, you’re getting the first preview of Tied Score, Book 2 in the “Slices of PI” series, a BDSM erotic romance releasing on August 15, 2016. First, though, last week’s survey results! When asked about your… Read more A TIED SCORE Preview: Masturbation Month Week 2
We’re a few days into National Masturbation Month now, and I figure it’s been a couple of weeks since my last TMI saga, so I wanted to talk about hood piercings on the blog today. Before that, though, thanks to everyone who answered yesterday’s Twitter #MasturbationMonth survey about how many sex toys you own. I’m… Read more It’s All Good in the Hood: Some TMI about Hood Piercings
Sometimes, I like sexting with people on Kik. Wow, that’s a sentence that wouldn’t have made any sense twenty years ago. In case you’re twenty years behind in technology or just haven’t heard of Kik – or maybe sexting – I’ll explain. Kik is an anonymous chat program that lets you sign up with just an email… Read more Oh the Dicks You Will See: Adventures in Sexting with Strangers
One of the new terms floating about in the online BDSM world right now is the “alpha sub.” It’s showing up in my Tumblr more and more, and while I always take Tumblr kink with a grain of salt – putting your porn through a black and white filter doesn’t necessarily make it artsy, folks –… Read more Don’t call me an Alpha Sub
A few weeks ago, I was fortunate enough to attend Geeky Kink New England, which is either described as “a geeky convention for kinksters” or “a kinky convention for geeks.” I first heard of this event during my research for Playing Knotty. I needed to find some kink conventions that Ian was likely to attend, and… Read more Elia Recaps Her First Kink Convention (in MS Paint)
In preparation for the Playing Knotty Cover Reveal on Monday, I bring you your third and final Knot of the Day! This is more than a knot, though: it’s a full harness. Karada Rope Harness I’ve added two videos here: the first has turned an image (found here and elsewhere) into a video, and the second… Read more Knot of the Day: Karada Rope Harness
In preparation for the Playing Knotty Cover Reveal on Monday, I bring you your second Knot of the Day! Cat’s Paw I love that I’m embedding a video from a channel called GunsKnivesSurvival. And yes, the Cat’s Paw is a great hitch for tying stuff to other stuff… and for tying people to stuff. When… Read more Knot of the Day: Cat’s Paw
In preparation for the Playing Knotty Cover Reveal this Monday, I bring you your first Knot of the Day! The Handcuff Knot: Now, this knot may be used by firefighters, but that’s not what we’re here for. The Handcuff Knot is a simple, fun knot to use in light bondage. It’s one of my favorites for… Read more Knot of the Day: Handcuff Knot